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How to Introduce Your Kink to Your Partner

Sexual kinks are non-conventional sexual practices people like to do with themselves or their partners. It shouldn’t be confused with a fetish, which becomes a requirement for a person to achieve arousal and enjoyment.

You may be a kinkster if you don’t consider yourself “vanilla” or a person with conventional sexual tastes. Some popular sexual kinks include BDSM, voyeurism, or wax play. Here are guidelines on how you can discuss your sexual preferences with your partner:

  1. Slowly introduce them to videos you like.

Some videos specialize in showcasing adults engaging in non-conventional sexual activities. If you cannot tell your partner straight up, you can just ask them how they feel about a specific kink and see how their reaction goes.

  1. Explain how the process goes.

Many people often misunderstand specific kinks. If your partner is open and willing to learn, explain that kinks should only be done consensually and that you aren’t forcing them to follow your desires. Remember, kink should be fun for both parties involved.

  1. Start things out slowly.

Try to avoid whipping the chains and whips on your first try. If you require a dominant specializing in impact play, try slowly introducing your desire to be spanked. Remember to increase the intensity of the slaps with each hit. Remember to praise them when they do a great job and encourage them to try further.

  1. Expect some sort of awkwardness.

Sex is all about discovery. Sharing your kinks isn’t always going to be a breeze. Before revealing your bedroom desires, try to gauge first if your partner is open to exploration. If they are not, you may have to consider whether you are willing to suppress your sexual desires or look for a more compatible partner.

 Remember, sharing your kinks doesn’t mean forcing them to try or having them force something on you. Engaging in non-conventional sexual acts involves pushing the boundaries between pain and pleasure. It should also only be performed between two consenting adults. Always prioritize your safety and mental health. Stay safe.

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